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Spoken By Supreme
Master Ching Hai, Hsihu, Formosa
Dec. 23, 1995 (Originally In English)
There
was a priest. He cultivated a beautiful, large, lovely, fresh, green, flowering
garden. He loved flowers, so he spent a great deal of time in caring for them
so that his garden blossomed with life and all kinds of colorful flowers of
choice. But then some weeds grew in the garden, such as dandelions.
These
weeds actually taste very nice if you want to eat them. The tender leaves of
dandelions are very very good in salad. I used to go for walks in Germany, when
I was still there, to the countryside with a basket. When I came back, the basket
was full of weeds, wild plants like dandelions or something else, I can't remember
the names. Maybe what Milarepa used to eat -- nettles. Some leaves are very
prickly if you touch them, but you can eat the heart of nettles and many other
plants along the countryside. Then I made beautiful, fresh, nourishing salad.
In
the garden of the man, he loved flowers of all kinds, so he planted a lot of
flowers. But the dandelions were always there invading his country, his garden.
So he tried all kinds of means to get rid of the weeds, but he could never ever
succeed. The weeds were always there.
So
he was very fed up and he asked all kinds of experts what to do about the weeds.
No one had any clue. Then one day, someone recommended to him a Father Superior
in another monastery, "He has never turned anyone away without a solution.
He must, probably, have a solution for your weedy garden."
So
here went the priest, "bon-bon-bon-bon," over there. He asked the
Abbot, the Father Superior what to do about the weeds. The Father asked him,
"Do you weed them out?"
He said, "Yes, I do every day. But they grow again the next day, even more."
"Did
you put some of that stuff like chemicals?"
"Yes,
I did, but after some time the dandelions got used to the chemicals and then
they grew fatter, greener and lusher than before."
So
the Father Superior continued asking him if he used all kinds of expertise methods
to weed out the dandelions from his garden.
So,
the priest said, "Yes, Yes. I did this, did that, did everything; and the
dandelions are still there."
So
the Father Superior sat there with the man for a while, meditated, and maybe
prayed to the supreme Father in heaven. After a while, the Father Superior told
the priest, "Okay, if you can't get rid of them, then you have to learn
to love them."
Sometimes
we have a lot of weaknesses on our spiritual path and in our daily lives. We
try all our best to get rid of them. If we can, well and good. If we truly,
honestly try our best and we can't get rid of them, it's fine. If we cannot,
learn the dandelion way. Love them and just ignore them. Don't fight with them.
Just do our job. Just look at the other flowers that you like. Try to develop
other qualities in yourself that are more suitable for a practitioner, are more
beautiful for your personality. Just ignore the weaknesses. Maybe they'll die
alone. If not, and no one looks at them, then you just forget them, like they
don't exist. It's difficult but you can practice.