Spoken
By Supreme Master Ching Hai,
Tainan, Formosa February 21, 1993 (Originally In Chinese)
That
is how most of you fail. You withdraw when you are faced with responsibilities;
you find an excuse to slip away, talk about something else, or pretend
not to understand. People become annoyed and drop the idea of using
you, just for instance, and then you succeed in escaping. However, what
have you escaped from? You are not only avoiding doing the job, you
are also missing an opportunity to learn. Sooner or later, you will
still have to learn the lesson, and it will be more difficult then.
Suppose
you do not study well in elementary school, then it will be increasingly
difficult for you to study in high school. You will fall further behind
in your studies and become unhappy. That is why some students take their
lives by jumping from great heights or into the sea. They play truant
and run away from home because they cannot keep up with their studies.
This is why people
suffer in this world. Instead of working hard to help ourselves clear
our obligations and karma, we always want to slip or run away. But we
can never escape! We will come back in the next lifetime, when we will
find the lessons more difficult and we have heavier interest to pay.
We will be more frustrated, troubled, and agonized. We will not be able
to handle it, and will bring harm to our body, our life and things that
we cherish and like.
Do you understand
why life is so painful? You are the one who created the miseries! The
saying "we create our own frustrations" is so true. We not
only bring trouble to ourselves, we also cause trouble for anyone who
is related to us. That is why we have individual karma as well as collective
karma.
If we truly love the
world and want to deliver sentient beings, we must first perfect ourselves.
Ancient sages were correct in saying: "Cultivate yourself, stabilize
the family, manage the country, and then pacify the world." They
did not elaborate in detail, so you just read and recite the saying
without realizing anything. You do not digest and absorb the powerful
truth behind the statement. Therefore, although people recite the scriptures,
chant the Buddha's name, or whatever, they still remain ignorant.
This is also true
with my teachings; if you do not cherish and practice them sincerely,
you will remain the way you are. Maybe you will be a little bit different
-- now you cross your legs every day and have become a vegetarian. Perhaps
your thinking has become a little bit arrogant, "I am a spiritual
practitioner." That does you more harm than good. You must be cautious.
This is not good enough for spiritual practice.
You must truly be
one hundred percent honest with yourself. We have to know our faults,
but that does not mean feeling inferior or miserable. Once we recognize
our faults, we should rectify them as best as we can. To make a mistake
once is enough; do not repeat the same mistake. This way, we can get
rid of a fault each time. By eliminating one or two faults each day,
we really could become faultless one day!
Faults are not that
bad, but they hinder us from becoming a perfect being. If we keep making
the same mistakes, there is no time for us to practice our good points.
This is the problem, not others' criticisms. We are the masters of our
own life, and it is up to us to be good or bad. So we should choose
that which is better for us. If we are busy making mistakes and then
correcting them, that is, if one mistake needs to be rectified several
times, then we will be completely occupied and have no time to learn
better lessons. This is why faults are detrimental to us. I wonder if
you understand or not. Sometimes you understand at the moment, but go
back to your habits the next day. Just try your best!