Be Gentle Toward Others
By Initiate Lee Yong-Shiang, Hong Kong
I used to be very rude. Although I am a girl, neither my speech nor deeds are usually very gentle. Even when I was working with the publications group, I made a lot of noise while moving books, not to mention when I did housework. I even made very loud noises when I walked, never considering that this might bother others.
During a 3-day retreat early last year, Master was walking among the disciples after a lecture. A guard called out to Master in a very loud voice, which totally startled Her. Imitating the tone of the guard, Master shouted, "Watch out! There are people in front Master!" At first all the initiates were shocked, then they burst into laughter. Master said that if you want someone's attention, you should speak in a very soft and gentle tone; talk in a low voice and don't be rude; learn to be gentle and smooth over the rough edges.
After some introspection, I found that I did have many rude qualities that needed improving. Determined to learn how to be more gentle, I began paying attention to my surroundings, tried to work quickly and quietly, and spoke and treated people gently. Gradually, things around me became gentler.
When we are around other people, and they can feel our gentle atmosphere; they won't react in a rude manner. Rude people will become gentler because of you. After creating a gentle environment, your heart will become more and more soft and you will be more warm toward others. When you are soft, your movements will be light and quick, and there won't be loud noises when you work. There will be serenity. Things at home will also last longer. When there is tranquillity, you will not feel irritated and it will be easy to enter samadhi when you meditate. Remember to walk softly, so that you won't disturb fellow practitioners in meditation.
Master uses every opportunity to teach us to cultivate our good qualities; change our rough vibrations, and raise our spiritual level. Therefore, the more we learn from Master, the closer we will be to the qualities of heaven.
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