Previously, Emperor Wu of Liang State built many temples, and then went to ask Bodhidharma how much merit he had earned. Bodhidharma said: "None!" The Emperor was a stupid person, and even got mad at him. Bodhidharma was telling the truth but truthful words offended the emperor's ears. Being an unenlightened Emperor, he sent him away.
Later, the Emperor heard from someone who had more wisdom that Bodhidharma was great, was a real enlightened master. Then he regretted what he had done and invited Bodhidharma to come back, but he refused!
Most masters can ignore us. If you want, you follow him; if not, he is not bothered either. He won't lose anything. He knows that sentient beings are difficult to teach. Why should he trouble himself?
He will not chase after us, we should chase after him! Sometimes we can't catch up with him. He just lets it be, he doesn't care. He leaves the opportunity for the later people, or lets us get fed up ourselves -- life after life, after one thousand, two thousand or twenty thousand years, then we ourselves begin to seek, to climb up.
So he does not worry, does not care. Neither will he bother to interfere with us, as we won't gain merit doing this, because we are in the maze. What does it have to do with him whether we have merit or not in a maze?
It is not that the masters are arrogant, but simply that their thinking is different from ours. He is a very free person. He is at ease. How can we bind him? How can we make him beg us all the time. We are the prisoners ourselves! We should beg the person outside to save us. How can he beg us to ask him to save us? Life and death are our business, he is liberated already!